At first, an Aries man may appear to move on very quickly. Often, he will start dating someone new. If, after some time apart, an Aries man realizes he wants to get back together with you, he will make sure you know it by making grand, romantic gestures. It may be tempting to play games, especially if you see him flaunting his new love interest in your face.
Aries is a fire sign and is ruled by the planet Mars. This means Aries men are quick to anger, and their anger is explosive. Your Aries man will see straight through any games you try to play with him and when he does, he will feel he can no longer trust you. Aries man needs a loyal and supportive partner he knows he can always depend on, so if you lose his trust, the chances he will come back are low. If your Aries guy wants to be friends with you after a breakup, take it as a good sign.
It shows he wants to keep you in his life. He will be much more likely to come back to you if you just let him be. Respond to his messages, but not straight away. If you absolutely must contact him, find ways to share things that you know he will be interested in. Avoid bothering him with small talk or asking him questions about where things went wrong — dragging up the past will drive him further away.
Aries men are a challenge to win back. You have to use reverse psychology to make him come back to you. This will be easier for the more laid back zodiac signs, like Aquarius or Taurus.
Was it the reason that at the end of that three-month period he told her that he was going to pursue other women? Remember when you were at his beck and call? Not anymore. There are those men who prefer the chase to the meal served up to them, and Aries is one of them. Express your availability so that he knows you really do want to see him and work things out. Try not to be defensive. If you share his concerns, be honest and say so. Remember my friend I was talking about?
Emphasis on moving forward. If he cares about you, he may not be abrupt or harsh with you when you bring it up. You may just be reminding him why you broke up in the first place. Your best bet is to acknowledge what happened before but to set your sights on the present, and the future. Got something new and sexy in your closet?
Be cooperative and accept that things between you two may no longer work. In case he cheated on you, just see it as a whim because he tends to act only on impulse and emotion, so any beautiful woman can easily capture his attention. He likes being involved in arguments and fighting because his sign is being ruled by Mars. Furthermore, he can be very stubborn, this being the reason why his symbol is the ram.
When having a problem, he just pushes it away with his head. However, when meeting the woman who can really understand his nature and offers him security, he may give up being so stubborn and use all of his passion in order to fight for his relationship. He believes true loves exists and usually allows Mars to rule him, which means he can get really far in life when next to the lady of his dreams.
Just think of how it was when you first met and if one of you has changed in any way. The Aries man in love can be very cruel and regret it afterwards. Be relaxed when talking to him, especially if he talks in the same way with you. Subtly flatter him because he likes being admired, especially for what he has managed to achieve in life.
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